you want to ask out this certain girl and you want her to say YES. below are ways to get her to say yes
1. Intelligence To See If She’s Available
If the woman you’re hoping to go on a date with isn’t even single, you’re going to be shot down pretty quickly, and that’s a waste of time for everyone (although, not bad practice!). It’s not always possible to find out ahead of time whether or not she’s single, especially if she’s a stranger in a bar, but if it’s someone you know through friends you can check ahead of time that, as far as they know, she’s interested in dating.
2.measure Her Level Of Interest
It’s possible to get some idea of how well things will go for you before you’ve so much as spoken a word to the girl you have your sights set on. It’s best not to go in cold, so spend some time gauging her level of interest in you ahead of time by paying attention to her body language and nonverbal cues.
3. Make Sure the Scene Is Conducive to Success
When you decide to approach the girl you’ve picked, the setting needs to be conducive to success. It can be embarrassing, for example, to ask a woman out if her friends or family are around and within earshot, and likewise if she’s busy doing daily activities like commuting or shopping for groceries — it’s likely she won’t want to be disturbed in this case, and you’re more likely to get an annoyed “no thanks” when you ask in inconvenient settings.
This is a basic step, but one that men sometimes slip up on. You will drastically increase your odds of success if you have a fresh haircut and clipped fingernails, and if you’re freshly showered and smelling good (and of a well-selected fragrance, perhaps). Consider your outfit, too: there’s no need to be wearing a three piece suit, but make sure you are tidily dressed.
How you look is not merely a superficial consideration: looking your best gives an indication of your level of self-respect and attention to detail, and these are important cues that women will be picking up on. Again, you don’t need to be dressed like the nines and looking like a male model at all times; the point is to be fresh, clean and radiating self-respect.
5. Burn your blueprint and script.
What this means is simply do not try to “plan” your relationship. If you try to do this, the chances that something is not going to go like you wanted to is pretty high, and that could end what could have been a pretty fulfilling relationship. Some of the best relationships are built on being spontaneous and passionate, and if you try to plan out how it’s going to work, it usually will not
You obviously can not expect to have the all of the same ideas and beliefs as the person you are in a relationship with, so it is important to adapt if you want your relationship to last. If you care about your boyfriend/girlfriend, this step should come pretty easily. Your partner’s little quirks or even religious beliefs may seem like a deal breaker, but if you have the ability to adapt, then your relationship has the amazing ability to go the distance.
When in a relationship, it is important to develop your own interests. You and your partner don’t have to express interest in all of the same things as each other; that would make things really boring, wouldn’t it? This way, you guys will have more things to talk about and even more new things to try in your relationship.
8. Don’t keep score.
Relationships are not a game, so there is no reason to try to keep score. This means, if you do something nice for your partner, or do something to help out, you don’t have to announce it to them just to get brownie points. The same goes for if they make a mistake, or make you mad, you shouldn’t feel the need to hold it against them just to make yourself look better. This is probably one of the top reasons why relationships don’t last. Nobody likes to feel like a loser in a relationship.
9. Compliment each other.
This one is pretty self-explanatory. Complimenting your partner is such a simple way to show how much you really care about one another. If you don’t do it, it could be easy for them to question what they really mean to you, or what you really think of them.
10. Respect space and time.
Spending time with your partner is always a good thing to help your relationship grow, but giving each other some space every now and then is another important factor in making a relationship last. It gives yourselves time to grow as a person (self-awareness) as well as giving you that time to miss each other a little bit.