Have you ever heard the saying, ‘We fall in love by chance, we stay in love by choice’? Always remember that saying in your relationship with your girlfriend because it will make a huge difference to your relationship’s happiness. The truth is that you always have a choice to become closer or grow apart.
1.Daily worries. ‘So what’s been worrying you lately?’ sounds so simple, but yet, it’s something that can make your partner feel grateful and cared for. Even if they have no worries, just knowing that you care would make them feel good about being in the relationship.
2.Work. There’s always something to talk about work, be it a new project or a bad boss. By talking about each other’s work life, it’ll help both of you understand each other’s professional sides and ethics better.
3.The little secrets. Secrets are always fun to talk about. You can talk about secrets as a game where each of you have to take turns to reveal one new secret. It’ll be a lot of fun, and both of you can get to know each other more intimately.
4. Movies and TV shows. There’s always something new and fun every week when it comes to movies and shows. Talk about each other’s favorite shows or the movies both of you are excited to watch.
5.Daily individual lives:
Talk about each other’s daily events and activities. It can help both of you understand more about each other’s lives. Most couples ignore these conversations and end up drifting away from each other in no time.
Movies and television shows are perfect conversation makers for all couples. They provide for hours of gossiping and interesting conversations with a fresh perspective every day.
7. Crushes and second glances:
Do you think someone in your workplace is attractive? Or is someone from the third floor trying to catch your attention by trying to flirt with you? Talk to your partner about it. It
feel uncomfortable at first, but these conversations can actually bring both of you more closer than ever before and even insecuries
Talk about your weekend plans together even if it’s still Monday evening. It’s exciting and fun, and it’ll give both of you something to look forward to after a long week of work.
By having something to look forward to, it’ll even help both of you get through the week with enthusiasm because you know you have a good weekend coming up.
Talk about the things you like or admire about your partner. Let them know just how much you appreciate them, be it about their personality or about something they did the earlier weeks
10.Talk about your work day
There is always some kind of drama going on at work and telling her about it will make her feel included, help her understand what your work consists of, and make her feel like you want to share you experiences with her whether they are good or bad. When she returns the favor, you’ll learn more about her.
11. Discuss your hobbies and ask her about hers
Does she play softball on the weekends, or enjoy comic cons? You won’t know unless you ask her what she does with her free time. Telling her about your hobbies will also give her an idea of how you spend time without her.
Tell her about your favorite vacation destinations and where you’d like to go again. Ask her about her favorites and you just might end up with a planned vacation. Planning trips ahead of time will give you both something to look forward to as well as focusing that excitement on being together away from the daily grind.
13.Tell her some funny stories from your childhood
Most stories about childhood are funny to people who only know you as an adult so this is bound to get her laughing. She’ll return the favor by filling you in on some adolescent adventures and you’ll learn a lot more about each other’s upbringing.
14. Talk about your favorite foods or restaurants
The two of you may end up having similar taste and enjoying the same place. Then, you can have your next date night preplanned with no pressure on you to impress.
15.Talk About Whether Or Not You Believe In God:
If you haven’t talked about this yet, it’s a great topic of conversation to connect on a deeper level. This is not something you talk about with a stranger on the street or someone you barely know because it is an intimate topic.
16.Ask Her What She Feels Grateful for:
When you focus on gratitude, you feel better. You feel happier and more alive and ready to take on the world. If you talk to her about what she feels grateful for, then you are helping her feel better, happier, alive, and ready to take on the world! It’s just a simple way to help her feel better about herself, you, and everything that’s going on around her.
Ask a specific question, such as what she feels most grateful for in her life or what she feels most grateful for about her family. Or, if it is just a random conversation, then pick any topic around gratitude. And if she is feeling down about something, then asking her to focus on what she is grateful for in that area will help her to start feeling better, and when she feels better, she will associate you with that increased mood.