Step By Step Guide For a First Kiss
A kiss can tell a lot about a couple and their prospective romance.
Or so we’ve been told since forever.
Get the first kiss wrong and it probably means there’s no chemistry in the relationship.
With so much pressure on kissing, it’s obvious that you need to be a good kisser.
Some guys and girls are great kissers. And some, well, just aren’t.
In a romantic movie, the first kisses are always so perfect, romantic and passionate. But in life, it’s better to be safe than sorry. After all, there is no rewind button in real life
Think of it this way, you may be a good driver. But when you drive a new car for the first time, will you really be as comfortable with the new car as much as you were in your old car?
1.Preparation Before The kiss
You don’t just kiss, especially if you are kiss a girl romantically for the first time. You have to make sure that your girl will be impressed with the kiss. Your kiss has to be one of her most memorable moments with you. So how do you that? Well, you have to prepare for this very special moment.
2.Work on Looks and Hygiene.
Make yourself attractive. You have to look good for that special kiss. From hair down to your toes, make sure you look inviting. Remember that girls only kiss guys they are attracted to, so make an effort to appear handsome. Also, make sure that your breath is fresh. Brush your teeth and gargle with a mouthwash. If you have to use a mouth spray before you do it, then do so. Spray a perfume that is mild yet masculine.
3.Take it slow. Don’t jump into the kiss.
Take it slow and even if you start off with a kiss on the lips, don’t focus just on the lips. Move your lips away slowly after a first few kisses on the lips and graze your lips against your partner’s neck or chin. Breathe into your partner’s skin and you’ll feel a lot more romantic and sensual. Spend a while warming each other up to a good kiss and take it slow
4.Linger between kisses.
When both of you start kissing, kiss each other for several seconds at once without forcing your way in. Don’t worry about how long the kiss lasts as long as you feel comfortable.
Don’t stick your tongue into your partner’s lips immediately. Take your time and test the water by playing it slow. Always wait for your partner’s reciprocation before going too far. Take time between each kiss by parting your lips from your lover but keep them really close, almost at the point of kissing again.
5.Touch each other’s face.
A passionate kiss involves more than just the kiss. As you kiss each other, touch your partner’s face and shoulders with your hands. You could also clasp your partner’s hands with yours, just as long as everything you do is subtle and delicate.
6.Don’t be distracted.
When you’re kissing someone passionately, you need to stop getting distracted by anything else. Just close your eyes and enjoy the sensation. If you’re distracted, your partner won’t feel the intimate connection and would end up experiencing a less than pleasurable kiss
7.Passion isn’t just experienced on the lips.
If you want to know how to kiss passionately, you need to remember this fact. A kiss is just a kiss. It’s what you do while kissing that makes a kiss passionate. While kissing your partner on the lips, part the kiss to move your face lower and kiss your partner’s ears, chin, and areas around their lips and even the neck.
8.Get aggressive now and then.
Passion is nothing but sensuous aggression. Now that you’ve been kissing your partner for a few minutes or even seconds, push your partner’s face back with your lips or by holding the hair at the back of their head. By doing this, you’re taking a perfectly romantic kiss and turning it into something passionate and sexy.
But no matter how aggressive you get when you’re experiencing a sexual high while kissing, always go back to soft relaxed kissing. A burst of passion feels great and makes a good change of pace when you’re kissing for longer than a few seconds.
9.Don’t hurt each other. Don’t bite hard or give hickeys unless your partner wants it. Yes, it’s easy to get carried away when you’re on a passionate high, but you’ll end up hurting your partner or give them a less than enjoyable experience when you tug at something or knead something really hard.
10.Don’t contradict each other. You can use your tongue and you can use your hands. But always be soft in your approach unless your partner reciprocates your aggression. When you’re in a new relationship, both of you have to learn from each other. Let your partner take the lead in kissing for a minute or two before you switch and take the lead. By doing this, both of you can understand each other’s kissing styles and learn about what either of you like instead of turning a good passionate kiss into a confusing disaster.